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What is Wicca?

dianic wicca 150x1505 What is Wicca?Wicca is an earth-based Spiritual path, based on reviving the ancient pagan religions of pre-Christian Europe. Wiccan’s have a strong belief in the forms and forces of nature and that the divine source exists on all planes and is both male and female. Wiccan’s see aspects of life and nature as being sacred.

Wiccan’s will attempt to attune themselves to natural rhythms of nature and cycle of life so they can communicate with the divine form. Wiccan’s will use rituals and rites, which are a mix between ancient text and modern ceremonies as well as shamanic practices to achieve this commune with the divine force.

For Wiccan’s the divine form / force is divided in to two parts the two parts are considered to be equal and opposite (up-down / left-right / good bad / summer-winter etc.). These two halves created the balance in the universe and manifest as a Goddess(s) and God(s). By manifesting the power in two deities (Goddess and God), the natural balance of opposites, cause and effect are retained, e.g. Summer/winter, light/ dark, life and death etc   

Although Wiccan’s may name their deities Wiccan’s believe that all goddess’s are but one goddess and all gods are but one god. The reason a Wiccan will call on a deity by name is to focus the aspect or nature of the persona that that aspect of the divine portrays. Wiccan’s believe that with the will of the divine and through magickal workings such as spells and rituals you can bend the unlimited source of energy to your will and desire.

The Wiccan path has no leaders, No laws saying what is right and wrong, No real religious text such as The Bible,The Qur’an ,The Torah,The Vedas ,The Book of Mormon ,The Guru Granth Sahib ,The Avesta ,The Zhuan Falun etc although there are hundreds of books on wicca.

Wiccan fall basically into two groups the Hedge Witch, which is a solitary practitioner, and those that belong to a formal group or coven. Covens normally consist of 13 member and they are normally presided over by a High Priest and Priestess who have had may years of experience and are respected as an Elder and teacher of the craft.

All Wiccans adhere to one overriding ethical precept as stated in the “Wiccan Rede”:

“Though it harm none, Do what thy wilt”.

For a more detailed view of this rule please read “And it Harm None

And to insure that Wiccan’s work ethically and with an understanding that their actions have a consequence the have “The Three-Fold Law“.

Which basically is what you send out will return three-fold three times good three times bad. This means that a Wiccan has to be responsible for their own actions and how the actions affect other people because of the backlash they will receive for causing harm

Wiccan’s celebrate 8 major rituals each year called “Sabbats

There are 4 major and 4 minor Sabbats. The major Sabbats include: Imbolc (February 2nd), Beltane (April 30th), Lughnasadh (August 1st) and Samhain (October 31st), while the minor Sabbats are: Ostara (Spring Equinox, March 21st), Litha (Summer Solstice, June 21st), Madon (Autumn Equinox, September 21st), and Yule (Winter Solstice, December 21st).

The Sabbats are solar rituals marking the points of the sun’s yearly cycle, and make up half of the Wiccan ritual year. The other half is made up with “Esbats“, the Full Moon celebrations. There are 13 full moons each year symbolizing the goddess, wisdom and the inner self of the individual.

Anybody can be a Wiccan or Study Wicca and many people do. Since Wicca is a very personal and practical religion it can be moulded to suit an individuals needs spiritually and personally.

There are many different branches with in the Wiccan religion all with different rituals and rite but they all share the basic structure Wicca and Wicca is only one of many Pagan paths, And the one thing all these traditions share, is an overriding reverence for life, nature, and the environment, as seen through the Goddess and God.

 What is Wicca?

Getting Specific about Magical Ethics

EthicsGraphic 300x225 Getting Specific about Magical EthicsTHAT OLD BLACK MAGIC:

Getting Specific about Magical Ethics

Sometimes a cliché just wears out. It loses meaning or, worse, begins to say things we never meant. I think it’s time to retire the phrase “black magic.”

Saying” black” when we mean “evil” is nasty nonsense. In the first place, it reinforces the racist stereotypes that corrupt our society. And that’s not all. Whenever we say “black” instead of “bad,” we repeat again the big lie that darkness is wrong. It isn’t, as people who profess to love Nature should know.

Darkness can mean the inside of the womb, and the seed germinating within the Earth, and the chaos that gives rise to all truly new beginnings. In our myths, the one who goes down to the underworld returns with the treasure? Even death, to the Wiccan understanding, is well-earned rest and comfort, and a preparation for new birth. Using “black” to mean” bad” is a blasphemy against the Crone.

But even if we no longer speak of magic as “black” or “white,” we still need to think and speak about the ethics of magic. Although black is not evil, some actions are evil. It simply is not true that anything a person is strong enough or skilled enough to do is OK, nor should doing what we will ever be the whole of the law for us. We need a clear and specific vocabulary that enables us to choose wisely what we will do.

We need to replace the word “black,” not simply to drop it. Some Pagans have tried using “negative” as their substitute, but that turned out to be confusing. For some people, “negative” means any spell to diminish or banish anything. Some things – tumours, depression, and bigotry – are harmful. There’s nothing wrong with a working to get rid of bad stuff. “Left-handed” is another common term for wrongful practice, very traditional, but just as ignorant, superstitious and potentially harmful as the phrase “black magic” itself. So in Proteus we tried using the word “unethical.” That’s a lot better – free of extraneous and false implications – but still too vague.

Gradually, I began to wonder whether using any one word, “black” or “unethical” or whatever, might just be too general and too subjective. Perhaps all I really tell a student that way is “Judy doesn’t like that.”

I won’t settle for blind obedience. If ethical principles are going to survive the twin tests of time and temptation, people need to understand just what to avoid, and why. Even more important, they need a basis for figuring out what to do instead. Especially when it comes to projective magic.

Projective magic means active workings, the kind in which we project our will out into the world to make some kind of change. This is what most people think of when they use the word magic at all. Quite clearly, magic that may affect other people is magic that can harm. This is the basis of the proverb “a Witch who can’t hex can’t heal.” Either you can raise or direct power, or you can’t. Your strength and skill can be used for blessing or for bane. The choice – and the karma – is yours.

Just as some people feel that strength and skill are their own justification, others feel that any projective magic is always wrong – that it is a distraction from our one true goal of union with the Divine or a wilful avoidance of the judgments of Karma. I think these attitudes are equally inconsistent with basic Wiccan philosophy.

We are taught that we will find the Lady within ourselves or not at all, that the Mother of All has been with us from the beginning. We can’t now establish a union that was always there. All we can do, all we need to do, is become aware. Knowing what it feels like to heal and empower, again and again till you can’t dismiss it as coincidence, is one of the most powerful methods for awakening that awareness. It makes no sense to say that the direct experience and exercise of our indwelling divinity distracts from the Great Work.

Indeed, it is this intimate connection between our magic and our self-realization that our ethics protect. Wrongful use of magic will choke the channel. No short-term gain could ever compensate for that.

The karmic argument against practical workings seems to me to arise from a paranoid and defeatist worldview. Even if we assume that the Gods for a reason put the hardships in this life there, how can we be so sure that the reason was punishment? Perhaps instead of penance to be endured, our difficulties are challenges to be met. Coping and dealing with our problems, learning magical and mundane skills, changing ourselves and our world for the better – in short, growing up – is that not what the Gods of joy and freedom want from us?

One of the most radically different things about a polytheistic belief system is that each one of us has the right, and the need, to choose which God/dresses will be the focus of our worship. We make these choices knowing that whatever energies we invoke most often in ritual will shape our own further growth. Spiritual practices are a means of self-programming. So we are responsible for what we worship in a way that people who take their One God as a given are not.

Think about this: what kind of Power actively wants us to submit and suffer, and objects when we develop skills to improve our own lives? Not a Being I’d want to invite around too often!

So it will not work for us to rule out projective magic completely; nor should we. Total prohibitions are as thoughtless as total permissiveness or blind obedience. Ethical and spiritual adults ought to be able to make distinctions and well-reasoned choices. I offer here a start toward analysing what kinds of magic are not ethical for us.

Baneful magic is magic done for the explicit purpose of causing harm to another person. Usually the reason for it is revenge, and the rationalization is justice. People who defend the practice of baneful magic often ask “but wouldn’t you join in cursing another Hitler?”

For adults there is no rule without exceptions. If you think you would never torture somebody, consider this scenario: in just half an hour the bomb will go off, killing everybody in the city, and this terrorist knows where it is hidden….

It’s a bad mistake to base your ethics on wildly unlikely cases, since none of us honestly knows how we would react in that kind of extreme. Reasonable ethical statements are statements about the behaviours we expect of ourselves under normally predictable circumstances.

We all get really angry on occasion, and sometimes with good cause. Then revenge can seem like no more than simple justice. The anger is a normal, healthy human reaction, and should not be repressed. But there’s no more need to act it out in magic than in physical violence. Instead of going for revenge – and invoking the karmic consequences of baneful magic -identify what you really need. For example, if your anger comes from a feeling that you have been attacked or violated, what you need is protection and safe space. Work for the positive goal, it’s both more effective and safer.

The consequences of baneful magic are simply the logical, natural and inevitable psychological effects. Even in that rare and extreme situation when you may decide you really do have to use magic to give Hitler a heart attack, it means you are choosing by the same choice to accept the act’s karma. Magical attack hurts the attacker first.

The only way I know how to do magic is by use of my imagination, by visualizing or otherwise actively imagining the end I want, and then projecting that goal with the energy of emotional/physiological arousal. All the techniques I know either help me to imagine more specifically or to project more strongly. So the only way I can send out harm is by first experiencing that harm within my own imagination. Instant and absolute karma – the natural, logical and inevitable outcomes of our own choices.

I would think, also, that somebody dumb enough to do such workings often would soon lose the ability to imagine specifically, as their sensitivity dulled in sheer self-defence. That call using effect is the reality behind the pious proverb that says, “If you abuse it, She’ll take it away.”

But not every other magician is ethical. Psychic attacks do happen. Should we not defend ourselves? Of course we should. Leaving ourselves open to psychic attack is no good example of the autonomy and assertiveness our chosen Gods expect. But first, how can we be sure what we are experiencing really is psychic attack?

The fantasy of psychic attack is often a convenient excuse that allows us to avoid looking at our own shortcomings. When lack of rest or improper nutrition is the cause of illness, or a project isn’t completed on time because of distraction, it’s a real temptation to put the blame outside us. Doing this too easily betrays our autonomy just as badly as meek submission to attack does. Then, to compound matters, projected blame becomes an excuse for unjust revenge — and that is baneful magic without excuse.

Once in a rare while, some fool really does try to throw a whammy. It’s hard to predict when you might be targeted. Passive shields are always a good idea. Like a mirror, these are totally inactive until somebody sends unwelcome energy. Then a shield will protect you completely and bounce back whatever is being thrown. You may not even know consciously when your shield is working, but the result is perfect justice.

Perfect justice; elegant and efficient. You won’t hurt anybody out of paranoia or by mistake. And perfect protection, even though we do not have perfect knowledge.

Bindings, according to some, are completely defensive. They do not harm, only restrain. But imagine yourself being bound – perhaps by someone who believes him or herself justified – and notice the feeling of impotence and frustration. Binding is bane from the viewpoint of the bound.

Even if restraint were truly not harm, bindings are just plain poor protection. They target a particular person or group. What if you suspect the wrong person? Somebody harmless is bound and your actual attacker is not bound. Shields, which cover you, not your supposed enemy, will cover you against any enemy, known or unknown.

So, baneful magic, besides being painful in the short run and crippling in the long run, is never necessary. There are better ways of self-protection, and retribution is the business of the Gods.

Coercive magic is magic that targets another person to make them give us something we want or need. When most people think of the “Magic Power of Witchcraft,” this is what they have in mind.

The spell to make the teacher give you a good grade, or the supervisor give you a good evaluation, the spell to make the personnel officer or renting agent choose you, the spell to attract that cute guy, all are examples of coercive magic.

So, what’s wrong with high grades, a good job, a raise, a nice apartment and a sexy lover? There’s nothing at all wrong with those goals. An it harm none, do what ye will. As long as nobody is hurt, go for it! But don’t strive toward good ends by coercive means.

Although there is no deliberate intent to do harm or cause pain in coercive workings, other people are treated as pawns. Their autonomy and their interests are ignored.

For Pagans, to do this is total hypocrisy. We profess to follow a religion of immanence, one that places ultimate meaning and value in this life on this Earth, here and now. We claim to see every living thing, humans included, as a sacred manifestation. To do honour to this indwelling divinity, we place great value on our own personal autonomy. How can we then justify treating other people as objects for our use?

Nor is it harmless. Forcing the will, controlling the independent judgement of another human being, is harm. Once again, empathy leads to understanding. Just imagine you are the person whose will and judgement is being externally controlled. How does puppet hood feel? From the viewpoint of the target, the harm is palpable.

The Pagan and Wiccan community as a whole are also hurt by coercive magic. One of the main reasons people fear and hate Witches is our reputation for controlling others. This is an old, dirty lie, created by the invading religion in an attempt to discredit the indigenous competition. Today, that people who claim to be “our own,” who teach unethical coercive magic by mail order to strangers whose ethical sensitivity, mostly perpetuate reputation cannot be evaluated long distance. May the Gods preserve the Craft!

People, who are connected to the situation, but invisible to us, may also be seriously hurt: the cute guy’s fiancée, the other applicant for that job. What you think of as a working designed only to bring good to yourself can bring serious harm to innocent third parties, and the karma of their pain will be on you.

That isn’t the only way an incomplete view of the situation can backfire. There’s a traditional saying that goes, “be careful about what you ask for, because that’s exactly what you will get.” What if he is gorgeous, but abusive? What if the apartment house is structurally unsound? Better to state your legitimate needs (love in my life, a nice place to live) and let the Gods deal with the details.

Finally, remember this: asking specifically limits us to what we now know or what we can now imagine. But I remember a time when I could not have imagined being a priestess. What if the cute guy in the office is perfectly OK, but your absolutely perfect soul mate will be in the A+P next Wednesday? The more specifically targeted your magic is, the more you limit yourself to a life of tautology and missed chances.

And beyond the entire scenario spinning lays the instant karma, the natural, logical and inevitable consequence of the act. It’s subtler than in the case of baneful magic, since you are not trying to imagine and project pain, but the damage is still real.

Every time you treat another human being as a thing to be pushed and pulled around for your convenience and pleasure, you are reinforcing your own alienation. The attitude of being removed from and superior to other people takes you out of community. As the attitude strengthens, so will the behaviour it engenders. The long-term result of coercive magic, as with mundane forms of coercion, is isolation and loneliness.

Are you beginning to think that magic is useless? Did I just rule out all the good stuff: love charms, job magic, and spells for good grades? Not at all. It is not only ethical but also good for you to do lots of magic to improve your own life. Whenever it works you will get more than you asked for – because along with whatever you asked for comes one more experience of your own effectiveness, your power-from-within.

Work on yourself and your own needs and desires without targeting other people. Then feel free! Ask for what you want. Visualize it and raise power for it and act in accordance on the material plane. “I need a caring and horny lover with a good sense of humour.” “I want an affordable apartment near where my coven meets with a tree outside my window.” “I need to be at my best when I take that exam next week.” Fulfil your dreams, and sometimes let the Gods surprise you with gifts beyond your dreams.

Manipulative magic is magic that targets another person for what we think is “their own good,” without regard for their opinions in the matter. In the general culture around us, this is normal. As you read this, you may have some friend or relative praying for you to be “saved” from your evil Pagan ways and returned to the fold of their preference. These people mean you well. By their own lights, they are attempting to heal you. We work from a very different theological base.

As polytheists, we affirm the diversity of the divine and the divinity of diversity. If there is no one, true, right and only way in general, do we dare to assume that there is one obvious right choice for a person in any given situation? If more than one choice may be “right,” how can one person presume they know what another person would want without asking them first?

No life situation ever looks the same from outside as it does to the person who is experiencing it. Are you sure you even have all the facts? Are you fully aware of all the emotional entanglements involved? Perhaps that illness is the only way they have of getting rest or getting attention. Perhaps they stay in that dead end job because it leaves them more energy to concentrate on their music. How do you know till you ask?

And, to further complicate the analyse is, it’s possible that the person you are trying to help would agree with you about the most desirable outcome, but fears and hates the very idea of magic. They have as much of a right to keep magic out of their own life, as you have to make it part of yours!

Our religion teaches that the sacred lives within each person, hat we can hear the Lady’s voice for ourselves if we only learn to listen. “… If that which you seek, you find not within yourself, you will never find it without.” In behavioural terms, when you take another person’s opinion about their own life seriously, you are reinforcing them in thinking and choosing for themselves. The more you do this, the more you encourage them to listen for the sacred inner voice.

Conversely, whenever you ignore or override a person’s feelings about their own life, you are discounting those feelings and discouraging the kind of internal attention that can keep the channels to wisdom open. Although well-intentioned meddling may actually help somebody in the short run, in the longer run it trains him or her to dependency and indecision. Few intentional banes damage as severely. This is especially true because even the untrained and unaware will instinctively resist overt ill will, but in our culture we are trained to receive “expert” interference with gratitude.

Check by asking yourself, “Who’s in charge here?” The answer to that will tell you whether you are basically empowering or undermining the person you intend to help.

And, as usual, the effects go both ways. The same uninvited intervention that fosters passivity in the recipient will foster arrogance in the “rescuer.” It’s control and ego-inflation masked as generosity. It’s very seductive.

If you make this a habit, you will come to believe that other people are incompetent and powerless. Then what happens when you need help? Your contempt will make it impossible for you to see what resources surround you. Manipulative magic is ultimately just as alienating as coercive magic and it’s a much prettier trap! The way to avoid the trap is to do no working affecting another person without that person’s explicit permission. Protean’s are pledged to this, and I think it’s a good idea for anybody.

You don’t need to wait passively for the person to ask. It’s perfectly all right to offer, as long as you are willing to sometimes accept “no” for your answer. For the person who believes s/he is unworthy or who is simply too shy, offering help is itself a gift. Taking their opinion seriously is an even greater gift: respect. The rule is that whenever it is in anyway physically possible to ask, you must ask. If it’s not important enough to pay long distance charges, it certainly isn’t important enough to violate a friend’s autonomy. If asking is literally not possible, then and only then, here are a few exceptions:

Sometimes an illness or injury happens very suddenly, and the person is unconscious or in a coma before you could possibly ask them. If you know that this person is generally comfortable with magic, you may do workings to keep their basic body systems working and allow the normal healing process the time it needs. If they are opposed to magic, for whatever reason, back off!

Traditionally, an unconscious person is understood to be temporarily out of their body. Maintaining their body in habitable condition is preserving their option, not choosing for them. Doing maintenance magic requires a lot of sensitivity. At some point, the time may come when you should stop and let the person go on. Be sure to use some kind of divination to help you stay aware.

This is a hard road. It may be your lover, your child, lying there helpless. Any normal human being would be tempted to drag them back, to force them to stay regardless of what is truly best for them, regardless of what they want. Don’t repress these feelings; they do no harm, even though your actions might. It takes great strength and non-possessive love to recognize that your loved one knows their own need. You may be calling them back to a crippled body, to a life of pain. You may be calling them back from the ecstasy of the Goddess. And this is no more your right than it would be to murder them.

If a person is temporarily not reachable, you may charge up a physical object, such as an appropriate talisman or some incense. When you present it to them, give them a full explanation. It is their choice whether to keep or use your gift. By interposing an object between the magic and the target in this way, you can work the magic in Circle, with the coven’s power to draw on, and still get the person’s permission before the magic is triggered.

With all these rules about permission, perhaps it would be safer to work only on us? Safer, yes, but not nearly as good. If you have permission, you may do any working for another person that you might do for yourself. Coercive magic is just as unacceptable when somebody else asks for it, and you may not do manipulative magic on your friend’s mother, even at your friend’s request. The permission must come from the magic’s intended target and from nobody else. With proper permission, working magic for others is good for all concerned.

Every act of magic has two effects. One is the direct effect; the healing or prosperity working or whatever was intended. The other is a minute change in the mind and the heart of the person who does the working. Everything we experience, and especially everything that we do in a wholehearted and focused way – the only way effective magic can be done – changes us. Each experience leaves its tiny trace, but the traces are cumulative. They mould the person we will become. Our karma is our choice.

Instant karma can also be good karma. Logical, natural and inevitable outcomes can be desirable. When you send out good, what you send it with is love. Love is the driving force. When you let love flow freely, the channel down to love’s wellspring stays clear and open. When you send out good, you direct it along the web of person-to-person connection, and awareness of that web is reinforced. The totality of that web is the basis of community.

When you send out good it feels good. In the same way that sending out bane requires imagining pain, sending out blessing requires imagining pleasure, strongly and specifically. And, when you send out good, just the same as when you call it to yourself, you reinforce your sense of effectiveness in the world. Blessings grow in the fertile ground of mutuality, to the benefit of all.

A pattern is becoming visible. In baneful magic, the magician intends to harm the target. In coercive magic, the intent toward the target is neutral. In manipulative magic, the magician actually means the target well. But no matter how different the intent may be, in all three cases magic is done to affect another person without that person’s permission. In all three cases, the target, the practitioner and ultimately the community are all hurt. And in all three cases, there are safer and more effective ways to reach the valid goals that we mean to aim for.

So, perhaps there is a descriptive word that covers all wrongful magical workings after all. How about “non-consensual” or “invasive” magic?

There’s one thing left to examine: the paradox of making rules to protect personal autonomy.

If we make some of our choices as a community, by discussing things together and arriving at a common understanding about what magical behaviours are acceptable among us, then we choose and shape the kind of community we become.

Or we could give up our right to choose, because we feel we shouldn’t tell each other what to do. Some people believe that a refusal to set community standards promotes personal autonomy. It never has before.

Appeals to individual rights can be real seductive. None of us wants Big Brother looking over our shoulders, telling us what to do “for our own good.” For Witches in particular – members of a religious minority with bad image problems – this is a very legitimate fear. But make sure when somebody talks about “rights” without specifying something like “religious practice rights” or “the right to consensual sex,” that you find out just what “rights” they mean.

Rhetoric about” rugged individualism” has been used in recent history to fast-talk us into letting the rich or strong dominate all our lives. Without anything to stop them, they can destroy the forestland, or deny jobs or apartments to “cultists.” Personal autonomy for most of us is diminished when we allow that.

Magic can be used for dominance, just the same as muscle or money. There is no difference, ethically, between the magical and the mundane. We are not obligated to tolerate power trippers among us. We are not obligated to run our own community by the slogans and ground rules of the dominator culture.

Thinking about “rights,” or about “laws” for that matter, in the abstract leads to “all or nothing” thinking – immature and slogan driven. I don’t think we should ever “just say” anything. We need a deeper and more mature analysis. We need to ask questions like “right to do what?” And “law against what?” We need to get away from absolutes and to look in practical terms at the advantages or disadvantages of our choices.

Once more, our religion itself shows us the way to steer between the false choices. “An it harm none, do what you will.” What a person does that affects only her – magical or mundane – is truly nobody’s business but her own. For example, consensual sexual behaviour affects only the participants. But toxic waste dumping affects everybody in the watershed.

As long as we look at behaviour in terms of private choices or individual will, we obscure the distinction that really makes a difference. If we’re serious about wanting to give each of us the most possible control over our own lives, then decisions should be made by all the people affected by the behaviour – not just by the people acting.

As soon as another person is magically targeted, that other person is affected. If we allow such targeting without consent, we are not supporting personal autonomy, we are subverting it!

When the behaviour begins to affect us all – for example when real estate development threatens the salt marshes, and ultimately the air supply – or, very specifically, when invasive magic erodes the trust we need to work together – then we have a right to protect ourselves as a community. No ideology should turn us into passive victims when something we hold precious stands to be destroyed.

Invasive magic hurts the target first, and soon the actor, but in the long run it hurts all of us. It’s been so long since we’ve been able to meet together, share our knowledge, help one another in need. Pagan community is very new, and still very fragile. It can only grow in safe space.

The People of this Land forbade skirmishes around the pipestone quarries, keeping that sacred source open to all. Otherwise, no sane person would go there, and the Old Ways would wither. For much the same reason, we cannot tolerate poppets in our council meetings.

An atmosphere of coercion and manipulation and magical duels does not nurture community. Eventually, for self-protection, the gentle will either change or go away. We could lose what we have misguidedly refused to protect.

As within, so without: our karma is our choice.

Judy Harrow

 

 Getting Specific about Magical Ethics

Originally posted 2011-07-04 11:34:11. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

Group Ethics

EthicsGraphic 300x225 Group EthicsOver the last few weeks their seems to me some tension within the facebook Pagan community(s) which needs defusing I am not sure of how to do a mass internet group(s) healing but have been watching what has been going on which has delayed the ethics lessons because although I have seen this behaviour in off line groups and moots which have been resolved through healing and chatting over issues in an adult format with the online communities you don’t get the one to one.

The main reason for this is that many people including myself have an online personality (ok mine closer to real self than most) but some use their online personality as ego trip “I know best” mentality while other just wish to share and learn like a child with innocence.

When starting a group online or off you need to set a basic set of core ethics what you wish to grow. The best way to start this off is a mission statement a statement that contains your goals and aspirations. This mission statement should be available for all to see and read and by agreeing to the principles of the mission people can sign up / join your group. I have found that a mission statement is just as effective if not more so than a list of do and don’ts.

My personal bug bear is that many online groups no matter how well meaning become very cliquey or are self promoting, all pagans wish to share we are good people but some feel that their information is worth buying and set up groups that self promote their book or their products while other set up groups to find like minded people to share ideas and build on what the know through input from others. These groups often get targeted by and I cant find another words so Arseholes will work fine that cause so much trouble groups often go from open to closed then to secrete now I have been a witch for several decades (and I am still learning) but I believe that in 2011 we witches, pagans need to be open and strong and when we deal with “arseholes” and we do it fairly by trying to understand their view point and gently but firmly show them the error that have arrived at and by our open actions we show others the correct way to act.

Now as a group Cyber Cauldron exists on facebook as a community which I Draco have run alone for over a year I now have 2 admin that actively take a role in the facebook page. But as a community we provide information and insights and sometimes advice if asked for. In all that time I have only had one issue, which can be read on the cyber cauldron as comments to a post http://www.cybercauldron.co.uk/the-stoned-witch-and-wasted-wizard  and the reason for this is that ideas are worth sharing, magickal knowledge is worth exploring not all things work for everyone but by learning to adapt we grow.

Just recently I wrote a set of ethics for Cyber Cauldron page http://www.cybercauldron.co.uk/cyber-cauldron-facebook-code-of-ethics  Not to restrict but just to create a little safety for its users.

As I wrote the group ethics I found myself reviewing what was going on in other groups and a few times I wrote rules that would prevent the same issues arising which where quickly removed.

The reason why I removed them was that I have know discrimination and also know that something said the wrong way can explode as I have often said things that have been misinterpreted and only through debate (a nice word for a argument) I have managed to put my point across which if I had put another way would have been acceptable but the debate has sparked new ideas for both parties.

So when setting up any group be strong in what you wish to achieve start with a declaration of intent or mission statement, which is honest. Don’t get hung up on membership numbers or visits, like or comments to posts other wise you will lose your way. If you want to create a sense of popularity or build your ego maybe you should not start a pagan group but a fan page where you can feed all those fluffy bunnies that will fawn over your everyword.

If you need to write a code of ethics think about what you really want and never base them on personal conflicts

 Group Ethics

Originally posted 2011-07-27 11:07:34. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

Wiccan Ethics And The Wiccan Rede

EthicsGraphic 300x225 Wiccan Ethics And The Wiccan Rede Part I: What Sayeth The Rede?

The “archaically worded” construction “An it harm none, do what ye will,” rendered into modern English is literally, “if it doesn’t harm anyone, do what you want.”

Many modern Wiccans “reverse” the construction, however, taking the first part and putting it after the second to read: “Do what ye will an it harm none,” or in modern English “Do what you want if it doesn’t harm anyone.”

Many people give the word “an” or “if” a value of “so long as” – which is acceptable substitution, because it doesn’t alter the meaning of the Rede itself. However they then proceed to read “so long as” as “only if,” and that is *completely different*, because the Rede has ceased to be a “wise counsel” [anyone checked the meaning of "rede" in the dictionary lately?] and become an injunction: prohibitive commandment, rather than permissive advice.

In other words, the original archaic construction actually says “if it is not going to hurt anyone, it is ok to do” – this is *not* the same as “if it hurts anyone it is *not* ok to do.”

What is the significance of the change? A larger one than you might see, at first glance.

The “actual construction Rede,” or AC Rede, says it is ok to do something that won’t harm anyone, but it *does not say anything* about those things which do cause harm, except to set an ethical standard of harmlessness as the criteria to judge by.

The “modern reconstruction Rede” or MR Rede, explicitly says that any and all actions that cause harm are forbidden.

The two constructions do *not* mean the same thing at all. And it should be obvious that this has implications on our thinking, and discussions of the possibility of “obeying” the Rede.

Most of you will have heard or read, as I have, people saying the Rede is something to strive to live by, even though mundane reality makes it very difficult, if not impossible, to do so to the letter. *This is only true of the MR Rede, not the AC Rede!* As examples, they cite situations such as self-defence; *this violates the MR Rede*. Period. But it does *not* violate the AC Rede. Period.

Earlier, I stated that the AC Rede does not rule on actions that do cause harm – and this is true. It only rules on those actions, which do not, by saying that they are acceptable. This is relevant to “victimless crimes” for example – civil “crimes” may in fact be “ethical,” by the judgment of the AC Rede.

What the AC Rede *does* do, in terms of actions that cause harm, is state an ethical value by which an individual must judge the results of her/his actions before acting. In other words, by stating that a harmless action is ethical, the AC Rede sets harmlessness as the criteria for evaluation. Acting to prevent greater harm – but in the process causing lesser harm – may then be ethical, if there is no harmless, or more harmless, method of preventing that greater harm – because *not* acting to prevent harm is to *cause* it, by an act of *omission* rather than *commission*.

In short the difference between the AC Rede, and the MR Rede, is that the AC Rede is a perfectly-obeyable ethical standard, but the MR Rede is not, as so many people have pointed out. Do we take as our ethical standard a “counsel” which *can* be obeyed, or one which *necessitates rationalizing in some instances*? Which is truer to the Wicca, and to the *real* Rede?

“rede: n. [Middle English rede < Old English raed < base of

raedan, to interpret] [archaic] 1. counsel; advice 2. a plan; scheme

3. a story; tale 4. an interpretation”

(from Webster’s New World Dictionary)

Part II: “Do good, an it be safe…” (from the Ordains)

The MR Rede is the most common interpretation in Wicca today; so much so, that not only do many Wiccans not realize there’s a difference in the two constructions, but they *deny* it when it is pointed out to them, holding firmly to the MR Rede as what the original has always meant.

At first the change of language was only an attempt to bring the language up from archaic, to modern English; but in doing so especially with the public relations campaign, to convince people that Wiccans are “not black magick/not devil worship/not evil nasty curse-casters” the “harmlessness” aspect of the Rede was stressed, over the personal responsibility aspect. And in essence Wiccans became the victims of their own PR campaign.

An additional result is the injunction that one may never work magick for others, even to heal, without their knowledge and consent. Of course, we are allowed by this injunction to ask “Can I pray for you?” as a means of obtaining the consent. From “a love spell aimed at one particular person is unethical because it violates their will only to serve our lust” we’ve moved to an extreme: to the prohibitive injunction against ever doing any magick for another without permission, since it violates their free will. Does anyone *really* believe the Gods will judge them ill, for attempting to heal someone?

What of the case of an unconscious accident victim and family unavailable to ask – are we forbidden to work? No, of course we’re not – but we *do* have to accept the karmic consequences of such acts. Do you really think that a neurotic who uses an illness as a crutch wouldn’t be better healed of that neurosis as well as the illness? Of course that may call up some karma if the person isn’t strong enough to give up that crutch yet. Once again the real criteria is *personal responsibility* and consideration of the consequences of one’s actions *before* one acts rather than the “thou shalt not” prohibitive commandment.

There is however another reason for the “prohibitive form” of these redes – one which has some validity. The teacher bears a karmic responsibility for the student. There was a group whose teaching was, “No magick may be done for another, even to heal, without their consent; any exceptions may be decided only by the High Priestess and the High Priest.” The point of this is that a student is not yet experienced enough, not yet wise enough (since wisdom is the harvest we reap of our experience and knowledge), to have that kind of decision, and the resulting karmic burden, left to rest fully upon her/his shoulders – hence, some teachers and some Trads do not allow neophytes to have responsibility for that kind of decision-making.

 

It is far better, however, to teach a student the essential importance of personal responsibility, the need to look ahead for possible consequences before they act, than to lay “thou shalt not’s” upon them despite Wicca’s insistence that we have none.

I received a comment about the last sentence in part I, paragraph 3, that said “Ack! Welcome to the One Wiccan Commandment! Any ‘thou shalt nots’ lurking around?” Food for thought, my fellow Wiccans! Food for thought!

By: David Piper, Sat 21 May 94 12:16

 Wiccan Ethics And The Wiccan Rede

Originally posted 2011-07-05 11:34:01. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

A Code Of Ethics for Teachers of the Wicca or witchcraft

EthicsGraphic 300x225 A Code Of Ethics for Teachers of the Wicca or witchcraftAll initiations, previous experience and group affiliations to be made known to your students.

Before beginning training tell your student you don’t know everything about the subject, but are willing to refer them on to another person if you don’t have the personal expertise.

Tell your student of your personal beliefs, teaching what you know but also emphasising Paganism is about personal spirituality and that they must find their own truth.

Students should be of legal age (i.e. 18) or have parental permission. This does not exclude passing on basic information of religious beliefs to minors.

All theoretical information should be supported by ritual demonstration.

All lessons must be prepared by reading up on the area to be taught about, decide how you’re going to present this information for the easiest understanding of the individual student and make notes to be given to the student.

There is to be a nominal fee for teaching to cover ritual supplies and fluctuates depending on the student. It is at the discretion of the teacher if they choose to loan books or give supplies from their personal collection.

All teachers must continue their own education also. It is impossible to know everything.

Do not proselytise. All students must seek out their teacher.

You do not take on more than 4 students at a time per mentor.

Students can be taught on an individual basis or in a teaching circle.

Students should be told if the training would not lead to initiation.

You respect the confidentiality of your own students first and foremost but also respect the confidentiality of group members, other Pagans and clients for whom you perform the Occult arts.

The only time that confidentiality is broken is if you feel that the person is a danger either to themselves or to others in a physical or mental way.

A teacher must never have a sexual relationship with their student. It destroys the power balance and has led to much disrepute in the communities both inside and outside the Pagan paths. If relations occur between the teacher and student, a new teacher must be found for that student.

Teaching is to be given on a mentor basis, the teacher adapting for each student.

A student can be rejected and all psychic links can be broken if they use the magickal arts outside the restraints of the magickal law of “harm none”.

A list of the code of teaching ethics is given to the student to show your position on various issues. This is to be kept and training can be broken by either parties, but a reason should be given out of courtesy.

Note: Many teachers ask the students to draw up a corresponding Students code of ethics to show commitment.

A good teacher:

Teaches spiritual as well as magickal aspects of Paganism

Encourages healing magick

Has a well-balanced life. If they can’t have a balanced life they can hardly teach a balanced method of magick.

Is willing to teach differently for each student.

Encourages practice as well as theoretical teachings

Welcomes questions and is willing to admit when they don’t know

Networks with other Pagans and groups, being able to refer you on when they are not proficient in the area of Paganism you are seeking to explore.

© Brian M. Walsh 2002 as a brief to all students in Pagan and Magickal training.

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 A Code Of Ethics for Teachers of the Wicca or witchcraft

Originally posted 2011-07-04 09:40:10. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

Cyber Cauldron facebook code of ethics

EthicsGraphic 300x225 Cyber Cauldron facebook code of ethicsThe cyber cauldron facebook page is a community and not a group closed or open, information is provided freely.

My mission statement is –

Cyber Cauldron will be a place supported by the website www.cybercauldron.co.uk  where information some handed down from myself Draco or from other free sources to provide you with insights ritual, meditations, spells and advice along with many other topics to help you develop your pagan life .

You may use the CC facebook page to pose questions ask advice or request information or just read the daily posts to that end

We Cyber cauldron and the admin of the facebook page promise to

  • Help you find what you seek.
  • Be polite
  • Be open to new ideas
  • Respect your pagan beliefs
  • Continue to provide information freely
  • Develop a school for eclectic witchcraft
  • Have a sense of humour
  • And where possible have someone always online (admin for fb page always wanted)

In return for this I ask all member to agree in principle to

  • Respect other members
  • Do not insult or belittle another’s viewpoint or belief
  • Share information where possible (any new group, link or idea)
  • No matter your degree or training someone will know more so never flout your educations as an end to discussion
  • Report to admin (Draco) any issues you have about this community

My brightest blessing and many thanks for joining this page I hope to keep it a friendly informative source for all pagans no matter their path

 

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Originally posted 2011-07-20 08:59:07. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

Evaluating the The Wiccan rede

book 150x150 Evaluating the The Wiccan redeThe main rule wiccan adhere to is An’ it harm none, do what you will
If we split this rule in it two component parts which are, “harm none” and “do what you want” This is often seen as an easy option against other belief systems which have many laws governing behaviour. But to be honest this is one of the most difficult rules to follow not just for myself but other pagans / wiccan ’s as well.
The rule states “do what you want” which is very easy to understand it is what it is it means live free with out control but the first part is the killer “an it harm none”.
When we review the harm none the most important word in none.
The word none is refering to one self and the harm we can cause to our selves by, by drinking, smoking, driving, shopping in fact everything we do just by being here causes harm not only to ourselves others and the planet.
The problem with this law is that it is impossible to life a life with causing some harm. But we should not forget the “Harm None” it is a good guide on how to live your life if we become aware of the harm we are doing we could learn to reduce the damage we done.
So how can we reduce the damage we do. We have to look at ourselves learn to live healthier and stop the things that are harming you. Look around and really see the damage that your life causes on your self and the planet.And try to find way to reduce your input what can you do to change?Over the years I have realised that I do my fair share of damage to myself and the planet, which does bother me on a spiritual level but have come to accept that I am not perfect, so I try to off set some of the damage I do.
When doing any magickal working it is extremely important to think of the harm you may cause adding “if it harm none, it shall be done” to the end of a spell is a cope out. And reduces the amount of energy required for the spell to be completed and will cause almost every spell you cast to fail.
When spell casting you need to take a holistic approach. Think about why do you need the cast the spell. Let look at a practical example;- John is in debt and he needs some luck to increase money so you decide to do a working so he get a promotion at work the result would be that he get a better job with more money and will be out of debt” The idea seems sounds it does not seem to cause any harm, does it ?….. Now lets look at the damage that could be caused:-
1. For John to get promoted, a job has to be created. So some will lose their job.
2. If John remained in debt he would of learned to budget and save up and one day would of saved enough money to put a down payment on a house where he would meet the love of his life and be happy for the rest of his life.
3. The woman that was to marry John and live a happy life never meet john and had a series of bad relationships and die alone.
If your aware of the possible damage that you could cause would you of cast the spell?
In most cases no but each case should be weighed up against the damage that might because, remember every action has an equal and opposite reaction, for every good created an equal amount of bad is also created that is balance.
So before you pick up a wand ! Think can the problem be solved / reduced or helped in any other way the answer is yes.
The rule should be rewrote to read “by minimal harm be done – do what you think is right “
And on a funny note I was explaining this to my friends sun and told him the rule An’ it harm none, Do what ye will, and he looked at me and said “Why Harm Nuns what have they done to you “ I still giggle every time I read or speak the rede as I think of harming nuns.

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Originally posted 2010-09-15 00:34:29. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

Ethics and Etiquette

book 300x250 Ethics and EtiquetteWhen we speak of ethics and etiquette in relation to pagansim what are we referring to? Are we speaking of outdated rules and actions that no longer have meaning and we only give lip service to? I don’t believe so. Ethics and etiquette are living, breathing codes of life, shaping our actions in relation to each other, and ourselves. They are a guiding force in the way we live our lives.

Let us first look at ethics. Ethics are defined as –a set of principles; moral philosophy; rules or standards governing the conduct of a person or the members of a profession; human duty; a particular system of principles and rules concerning duty, whether true or false; rules of practice in respect to a single class of human actions; motivation based on ideas of right and wrong; the philosophical study of moral values and rules.

When we begin to speak of ethics, we need to realize that this can be a very touchy subject. We are human after all, and we want to think our ethics are the correct ones. While there are generally accepted community ethics, it is personal ethics that make up who we are. And these are not the same for each person.

Before we begin to discuss in depth community and person ethics let us first look at the Rede, the most common code of conduct among Wiccans.

Bide the Wiccan law ye must, in perfect love and perfect trust;

Eight words the Wiccan Rede fulfill;

‘An ye harm none, do as ye will’;

Lest in self-defense it be, ever mind the rule of three;

Follow this with mind and heart;

And merry ye meet and merry ye part.

Every Wiccan knows the Rede. Our passwords into the sacred circle are in here. Our major rule of ethic is here. And the reason for breaking this ethic, as well as the consequences of breaking it foolishly. When we extract the line most popular –An ye harm none, do as ye will’ and begin to dissect it, we have to wonder “Is this an ethic we can every achieve?”

I believe the Rede is a standard of living, like all ethics, and one that is an impossibility to achieve. The goal is to live as closely to the Rede as possible. In the attempt to do this, we begin to analyze our actions. We follow the path of LEAST harm. Thus, we begin to live conscious of our actions, and how they effect the world around us. And here comes the REAL lesson of the Rede. It forces us to have personal responsibility. Once you have acknowledged that the Rede is a goal to work for and not a given situation, and have taken of the blinders that let you go around smug and happy that your religion is so sweet it makes your teeth itch, you can get down to the work of making your life an ethical one. What this involves is considering each decision in the light of the Rede before you decide upon a course of action. You do this by looking at all the possible consequences of that action and whether that will cause harm to any, choosing the path that causes the least harm and, (THIS IS THE KEY) accepting the responsibility for the consequences of your actions whether intentional or unintentional. -Lark, HPS of Tangled Moon Coven.

Wicca, as well as most Pagansim, is a religion and spiritual path of personal responsibility. We strive to live in an aware state. When we do this, we recognize our free will, and the free will of others. If we ignore the lesson of personal responsibility, we fail to realize our true spiritual potential and our true spiritual will.

As we begin our path, we must develop a set of personal ethics, while maintaining a respect for the ethics of the community we are becoming a part of. Some community ethics are very well defined.

-Don’t practice black magick, or follow the left-hand path.

-Don’t attempt to harm another or interfere with their free will.

-Always act in a way that will reflect well upon your path. Never do anything that will bring harm to the Craft.

Since Wicca, and pagansim, are very open paths and for the most part do not seek to make anyone follow ‘ONE RIGHT WAY’, most of the ethics defined by community are concerning harm to others, and harm to the Craft.

But to begin a spiritual path, and to follow it every day of your life, you must develop your own set of personal ethics that define the way you live. No one can tell you what your personal ethics should be. Your teachers, mentors, HPS, HP can all recommend both in word and deed, ethics that work for them. You may be given a ‘Book of the Law’ that governs your group or tradition. If you are a solitary, you may read on the net, or in a book, acceptable codes of conduct, or ideals. But you cannot take someone else’s ethics and make them your own. You must do some soul searching, and decide how you feel about things. Now I am NOT suggesting that you ignore your HPS or HP, or your teachers and mentors. I am suggesting that you should always temper wisdom with personal experience. You must come to a point that you are willing to question what you are taught, to grow in your own self. Through this, your own sense of ethics and morals will come.

Now, here comes the biggie. What do you do when your personal ethics are in direct conflict with accepted community ethics? For example-it has become a phenomenon in the pagan community to love everything white and full of light, and shun everything dark and full of shadow. It has become unacceptable to speak of negative emotions like anger and envy. It has become unacceptable to feel hate towards another person, wish that a murderer would get the death penalty, which that rapist would get castrated by a bunch of angry women. Some of us fondly refer to this a fluffy, bunny Wicca, no offense to anything fluffy, or bunnies. We are taught to love unconditionally because we are all brothers and sisters, connected to each other and every living thing. We are taught that if we experience these emotions, maybe we aren’t all that spiritual, and especially not as much as Miss crystal love and light. We are often looked down upon if we say something like ‘I am so damn mad at my ex husband I could smack him’. The response I myself have heard to such comment is ‘my my, now THAT wasn’t very positive’. Well, guess what. It WASN’T. Now I am not saying that you should indulge in these emotions. They can be deterrents to developing a sound spiritual identity because they are ‘negative’ in the sense that they are base emotions that do not vibrate on the spiritual plane. But they also teach us lessons that can lead to spiritual epiphanies.

Life is a balance between light and dark. Nature is both beautifully creative and frighteningly destructive. Inside of a single human there is light and shadow, and to be totally balanced we must learn to face both, experience both and therefore learn from both. So back to the original question. Let’s say you don’t feel that you are evil if you feel anger at another person or what have you. What do you do when community ethics conflict with your personal ethics? In my opinion, as long as what you are doing does not come into direct conflict with the good of the general community, or does not manipulate or purposefully harm another person, then your personal ethics should come first. You should not do something maliciously to another person. When you do this, you are not only harming yourself, but you are harming that person, AND the whole of the community. It is very important that our community not be sullied, and the reasons are obvious. But beyond this, your personal ethics should prevail.

Do ethics change over time? Do you think that the ethics of our ancestors of 100, 200 or even 1000 or more years ago are the same as what they are now? I believe that ethics are a revolving and ever changing system. Some become outdated, and some we should always keep. For instance, it has only been in the recent resurgence of Pagansim in the last 50-60 years or so that the belief of ‘An ye harm none, do as ye will came about’. In times past, a witch who could not curse, could not heal. Societies have not always believed that you should not harm another person, or that interfering with someone life was a bad thing. The old wise woman of a village was sought out for every reason from fertility, to love, to revenge. It has been in our time only, with the resurgence of beliefs and the discrimination that we face, that we have adopted some of the common ethics we now have. I am NOT saying this is wrong, or that we should go back to the ‘Old Ways’. In a society that we now living in, and the information is available for spiritual purposes, there is no longer a need to seek out the crone of the village and ask her to grant you revenge on your enemy. But this is the perfect example of how ethics change with time. At one time it was ethical for old men to mate with young girls. In our culture, it is no longer ethical. So ethics change, and so they should. Change is the only constant in the universe, and without it, we grow stagnate and our lives become filled with rot and decay. Change blows in new life to help recreate our lives, our beliefs and yes, even out ethics.

The other common code of conduct that we hear of in the Pagan community is ‘Do what thou wilt shall be the whole of the Law. Love is the Law, love under will.’ This comes from Aleister Crowley, from his book entitled ‘The Book of the Law’. Now knowing some of the things that we do about Crowley, it’s almost humorous to think of him in a discussion of ethics, except to point to what not to do maybe! But, this is a very powerful outlook on developing your own set of personal ethics.

In my understanding ‘Do what thou wilt shall be the whole of the Law. Love is the law, love under will’ does not mean you may do as you wish and that is it. It is speaking of your TRUE will, your TRUE purpose in life. And if you are following your true or higher will and purpose you will not come into conflict with another’s will so therefore you do not have to worry about stepping on anyone else’s toes. So you don’t have to worry about harming another, because you are in touch with the divine and you are following your own spiritual path and will, which will not cause harm or conflict with another. Of course, we still have conflicts with people. One way to look at this is as a spiritual lesson for either you or the other person. But if you are seeking to control another or harm another, this is not your true will. This is based upon the belief that every person is an individual, and as an individual you should be true to your own nature or consciousness. You must find your true will and make all of your actions subservient to the one great purpose. This again leads to conscious living.

If ethics are codes of personal and community conduct, then etiquette is a code of social conduct. Etiquette is defined as –the practices and forms prescribed by social convention or by authority; forms of conduct prescribed by polite society; code of correct conduct; also decorum denotes conformity with established standards of manners or behavior; the forms required by good breeding, or prescribed by authority, to be observed in social or official life; observance of the proprieties of rank and occasion; conventional decorum; ceremonial code of polite society; rules governing acceptable behavior.

Just like Emily Post and polite society, we in the Pagan community have behavior that is expected from us in how we interact with that community. In my opinion, etiquette is something sorely lacking in many Pagans. They are not taught certain things about how we interact with each other. This could be because maybe you didn’t have a teacher, or your teacher didn’t know them either. Or it could be because you or those who taught you just didn’t care, it wasn’t important to them. But I feel that etiquette is VERY important. It keeps us civilized, it aids us in how we interact and it shows the outside world that we know how to act.

Beyond the mundane world and it’s social etiquette, lets take a look at some things that are common among Pagan paths, especially the Wiccan path.

  1. You should never touch someone else’s magickal tools and items without their express permission. If you see something you like and want to touch, then ASK. Don’t just hold out your hand for it, or just pick it up. A person leaves an imprint of their energy on what they touch, and they may not want someone else’s energy on their magickal items. This includes athames all the way to stones and jewelery. And do not take offense if you ask and are told no.
  2. The way you live reflects on our whole community. You should always respect others, no matter their path. Inside your own religion thee is a certain higher respect given each other, as Children of the Goddess. This comes from a basic understanding of the hardships of the path, and the process we all go through in some way to evolve. It can be equated to any secret society and it’s initiation process and path of self-discovery. This path is not for everyone, and if you take it seriously, will change your life in ways you could never imagine. Any path that causes growth can be difficult. And we link with others that are going through the same thing we are and take strength from and learn from them.
  3. We endeavor to hold ourselves to a high standard of living our spiritual lives that the mundane world does not. Therefor we support each other, lending a hand when the pitfalls of the world come about.
  4. When someone gives of themselves to teach or guide, we recognize that person’s giving, and respect it. Not all of us are called to teach, and those who are offer a valuable service that should not be taken for granted.
  5. When you are called to teach or guide, you have been given a very serious part to play in your community. You should never abuse it in any way. It also does not mean that you may use it as a way to gain power over, or look down upon any other person. We are all where we should be onour path, and it does not mean a thing that you have 10 or 20 years of service and someone else has 1. We are all equal in the eyes of the Gods. And if you are a teacher, you are held to an even higher state of conduct. You must never involve yourself in anything that could cause harm to your students or to the Craft. You should never do anything that would bring a bad light on us. For instance, you should never become romantically involved with one of your students. You should not condone the use of illegal drugs, or alcohol if the person is not of age. You should not use your position to control your students, or make them dependent on you. The goal is to aid a person on this path. You supply the seed as a teacher. You cannot take them by the hand and learn from them, or be easy on them when you should be honest.
  6. In that same light, those who would be considered an elder in our faith are given a large amount of respect. The wisdom that is gained from following this path for 10, 20 or 30 years is an asset to our community, and we should respect the Elders of the community for what they have learned and what they teach us.
  7. Due to the advent of the internet, there is a phenomenon growing among new seekers that is very disturbing. It involves not understanding the hard work it takes to learn the Old Ways, or the dedication and self sacrifice those who follow, and especially those who teach and guide give to the path. From this lack of understanding, new seekers think they can go to any page on the net, learn what they can and be done with it. It also leads them to think that they can ask for what they want, and someone will just hand it over. For example, I have been asked to send someone a copy of my BOS. This shows me that the person requesting this has no idea of what a BOS is, what it stands for and the process that is gone through to acquire it. This is flat out rude to begin with. This person is wanting their religion hand fed to them. They want to skip the hard work, the dedication, the pitfalls and the trials, and get right to the reward. This is simply not how it’s done. This person wants the secrets and mysteries handed to them on a silver platter, without having to leave the comfort of the computer chair and work for them. This isn’t possible. And I am here to say STOP. Be mindful of what you are asking. You can’t go to the net, read a page or two, then go ask someone for their BOS, or even ask them to teach you. There must be effort on your part. You are not an adept after reading a page, or a book, or even ten books. The mysteries cannot be handed to you on a silver platter and you are a master of the universe. This is what I call lazy Wicca, and through lazy Wicca you will never come to experience the mysteries, because they come through dedication, hard work and a personal dedication to the Gods.
  8. Those who are out of the closet must NEVER give away the secrets of their brothers and sisters. You should never give any personal information. You should never tell the secrets of a coven, who it’s leaders are, who the members are or any other information. We must honor our vows and protect those who for whatever reason have chosen to remain hidden from the eyes of the world.
  9. For those who are out of the closet, your life and your actions must be above reproach in the eyes of the world. As an open pagan, you may be the only one that a non pagan every sees. They will see every Pagan in you. So in all things you must be truthful. You must live with dignity and honor.

In our discussion of ethics and etiquette the point I was trying to impress upon you is this. We have become a society who thinks that we may do as we please, act as we please and there are no consequences. We fight with the Christians. We complain about how they fight amongst themselves. We sneer at them when they point to another of them and say how that person is wrong and they way they practice is wrong. And yet, WE DO THE SAME THING.

When I meet a fellow priestess, I treat her with respect as a person, and doubly so as a priestess, since I know how hard that path can be, to have dedicated your life and your service to the Gods and the Old Ways. If I meet someone who has been walking the path for 20 or 30 years, I respect that person because of the knowledge they have obtained in that time. That is not to say my 10 years is less, or they are ‘more spiritual’ than me. It is saying that this path is not an easy one all the time, and to have lived it every day for that amount of time is deserving of respect. I was taught as a child to respect my elders, and I believe that is still a valid lesson. The elders of this path can teach us things that we have never even thought of. At the same time, as an elder, you should always remember what it was like to take your first stumbling steps on this path, and how you may have longed for some guidance. It is just as wrong to be an elder, and act as if you know everything, or someone who is only 20 or whatever age could never be a spiritual person. We all must remember our ethics and etiquette, and encourage each other every day.

We have forgotten to practice our personal ethics, and have thrown etiquette out the window. We have forgotten Emily Post and Miss Manners, and have went on about our merry little way to fight like cats and dogs, without even offering basic human respect for those with diverging views, and this troubles me. It is a plague that is infecting our community. The Witch Wars continue. We struggle to make our way the right way, even if we don’t realize we are doing this. We forget the very basic teaching that we are all connected, and that all paths are valid, as long as they fulfill our spiritual needs.

Let us remember our ethics. Let us live our lives with honor, treating all of life with respect. Follow your own path, without interference into another’s. Work hard, study hard and receive the blessings of a life well lived.

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Paganism Wicca way is best

Pentagram of Solomon 150x150 Paganism Wicca way is bestBeing a pagan does not require you to follow any particular path but when most people get interested in paganism they seem to end up looking at Wicca one reason is for this is that since the creation of Wicca it became published in books and magazines as well as the news. Since it’s creation and it public exposure Wicca seems to be one of the most wrote about pagan paths available to the everyday person with books that teach people how to be Wiccan.

Now I don’t want to put Wicca down it is a very valid pagan path which I was original train in many years ago, but it does have it limitations as a gay person it took a lot of searching to find a group which would accept me many wiccan’s saw homosexuality as an energy that could effect the energy created by a alternating male female circle. I will say that many new covens do not see homosexually as a issues and there are gay only Wicca groups which call themselves by other name but the practice and rituals are the same.

Now many people seeking to life a life with magicks and a spiritual connection will often find Wicca the first port of call and settle into Wicca and be very happy but for other the search will continue.

So if you have found a toehold on your belief through Wicca but feel that there is something missing what should you do? The first thing you need to work out is do you want to be part of a group where your leaders will instruct you and help you grow or do you want to be an individual.

For myself I loved group work and coven working but felt that I was being controlled not in a brain washed sort of way but in a way where I was not allowed to follow my own ethical beliefs living by the “and it harm none” jarred me sometime harm needs to be done … for the right reason. I went into working in the community and work with prisoners acting as minister. I learned much from people I thought at the start where the scum of the earth (and there are still some I believe are) sharing information on what it is like to live a life following a pagan life on the inside is hard not truly being able to connect with nature or the wheel of the year.

I met some very interesting, scary and dam right weird people over the 4 years I spent working as a prison minister. The first thing we did at meetings was say who we where and what path we followed and each in turn gave a description of what they believed many of which where not real identified paths but each was valid as they where created to suit the situation.

The problem I found as a prison minister was how do you include multi paths into a ritual for all to share, during this time I took a greater look at my own path absorbing some of the ritual and rite that where created to help unite the group. The more time I spent with these guys some whom I now consider as friends and teachers and the guest speakers provided from the pagan federation brought extra dimension to my own paths.

My personal practices had not always been Wiccan although group works where, I found myself less and less involved in Wiccan ideals and ethics I had seen the darkness in the hearts of men and Wicca prevented me from helping so I moved away gave up group work with in covens but continued to work with inmates both in the UK and USA and even tried to provide support to inmates with the pagan prisoners web site which failed with great effect due to the lack of support from UK pagan groups although the US pagan groups much more provided support.

As I moved further away from Wicca which was a bit of a yank as I had to close groups down and appoint new leaders but I had to find my own path which I new was going to be a solitary path which now combines many Wiccan ritual mixed with Hellenic polytheism, Oslac, shamanic workings to name a few and for many years have been trying without success to turn it into a path that other could follow or learn but being that it is such a personal path it does not allow other to follow as a religion and I know that it is just for me.

So when looking for your pagan path you have really two choices create your own path combining your beliefs ethics and practices or find a path that suits you.

If you choose your own path then create it for yourself alone or find information on a path that suits you there are many pagan paths that you can look up some of the most popular are:-

  • Alexandrian
  • Anglo-Romany
  • Anglo-Saxon
  • Ásatrú
  • Arthurian
  • Brezonek
  • Brittanic
  • Brythonic
  • Caledoni
  • Celtic
  • Celtic Shamanism
  • Creabh Ruadh
  • Cristos Wicca /
  • Christian Witchcraft
  • Cymri
  • Deborean
  • Deborean Wicca
  • Dianic
  • Druidiactos
  • Druidic
  • Dryad
  • Eclectic
  • Eireannach  Faery
  • Family
  • Feri
  • Fennian
  • Gaelic
  • Gardnerian
  • Golden Dawn
  • Hebridean
  • Hibernian
  • Irish
  • Kingstone
  • Maidenhill
  • Majestic
  • Manx
  • Norse
  • North Country
  • North Isles
  • Northern
  • OBOD
  • Ordo Templi Orientis  Pecti-Wita
  • Oslac
  • Reformed Druids
  • Romano-Gaulish
  • Sacred Wheel
  • Seax-Wica
  • Scotia
  • Scottish
  • Shamanic
  • Tuatha De Danonn
  • Ueleda Tradition
  • Welsh
  • West Country
  • Wica / Wicca
  • Wicce
  • Witan
  • Witchcraft
  • Wittan
  • Y Tylwyth Teg

In time I will discuss most if not all of these paths, which I hope, will help you gain an understanding of each path.

But if your interested in paganism or Wicca I recommend that you read as much as you can so you know what question to ask. Contact the pagan federation (PF) and they should be able to put you in touch with local groups.

If you’re interested in becoming a pagan minister to work with the community or prisoners please contact the PF.

If you have a personal account of how you became a pagan and wish to share no matter what path you are please email us using contact us form.

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Christian exploits local superstitious beliefs

farewell 150x150 Christian exploits local superstitious beliefsEven as a small child I had a big interest in magicks and witchcraft, from TV programs like bewitched, Tabitha, I dream of Genie, etc to Hammer Horror films about witches even today I still like films like The Craft, Witches etc.

But I always see them as good entertainment rather than a practical skill for the craft but the interest in magicks and power has always remained, so the soon as I hear the words, witch, pagan or magicks on the TV or Radio I turn my attention to it not just for entertainment but also for educational purposes.

Now over the last few years (decades) we have allsorts of programs on witches and witchcraft. Although many are crap sometimes a little gem will pop up. Now I have been trying to avoid the subject of African witchcraft not though a squeamish feeling and the fact much of the rubbish spouted is from Christians is that is not one of my areas of expertise and I was not sure how to deal with it.

Now the other day I hear the words witchcraft and prostitution in the same sentence from the TV so I turned my head and it was a program of the sex trade from Nigeria. I sat down and watched now the one thing I saw was belief that these people had in traditional magicks now rightly or wrongly their beliefs trapped them in a contact that would last for seven years plus.

Now I could not decide whether the priest had done anything wrong they preformed a ritual for protection and included in the ritual was a pledge that the woman would pay back the cost of travel to Europe which was about €50,000.

Now the one thing I felt was the people taking and recruiting these young where using the strong belief in magicks to trap the girls.

Now as I looked at African witchcraft once again I saw nothing more impressive that a traditional cultural craft now it’s not down to me to discuss the value of African witchcraft as it a cultural craft and as I am not part of that culture.

But it did give me a greater understanding of the beliefs of that culture. So much so I felt that I could tackle the issues of child abuse in the name of Christianity. There has not been much in the press on the subject for sometime but that does not mean it has not gone away. Thousands of children have been abused and murdered because the have been accused of being witches and wizards. No not in the 15th / 16th century but today and for the last few years because of the words of a Helen Ukpabio who claims that Satan has the ability to manifest himself in the bodies of children by demonic possession and make them become his servants in the form of ‘witches’ or ‘wizards’.

Her video basically give reasons and signs which basically make every child one of these witches or wizards, so open to abuse tortured, starved and murdered: all in the name of Jesus Christ.

Now the first thing we have to understand is Nigeria is a very poor place so survival can be difficult and Africans believe that any ill fortune is caused by witchcraft, which can leave them looking for someone to blame.

Christians priest who gain money from protecting people from witches often accuse children of being witches. Now children have no power to say they’re are not a witch. Now the priest will charge a family a year’s money so they can abuse a child in the name of Jesus Christ.

Any child accused of being a witch can be abandoned or killed. Nigerians have such a strong belief in witchcraft that fear of witches and wizards that they do not see children when they are beating, torturing, staving them to death.

I am going to include a link to a documentary http://www.channel4.com/programmes/dispatches/4od#3008630 so you can watch but it is very distressing as it contain scenes, which will make you cry. But please don’t believe that this witchcraft hunt and the abuse of children is just contained to Nigeria cases of abuse in the name of witchcraft have been recorded in Nigerian communities in the UK and USA and in other countries around the world by followers of Helen Ukpabio and Liberty Foundation Gospel Ministries (http://libertyfoundationgospelministries.org ).

This Christian exploits local superstitious beliefs, particularly those related to spiritual or demonic possession or witchcraft along with her followers. The government in Nigeria is not really that bothered about the suffering of these children.

Now it been sometime since we heard anything on the subject of child witches and their abuse in Nigeria so did it all stop sadly no it has not. No body has ever been prosecuted for the abused, murder children accused of witchcraft. Now although the idea of this may shock but the Nigerian governor says abuse of child ‘witches’ exaggerated (http://edition.cnn.com/2010/WORLD/africa/08/30/nigeria.child.witchcraft/index.html ) he claims that for the last 3 years the same children have been put up as abused witch children and those charities like http://www.steppingstonesnigeria.org/ are doing it for financial means.

Now I have seen other documentaries that have been created on witch children and the abuse that they receive one based in the UK. People like Helen Ukpabio and Liberty Foundation Gospel Ministries have found away to exploit poor and fearful people not only do they take their money but they abuse and kill children in the name of a man who believed in love and kindness Jesus Christ now.

Now as a witch I have learnt that fear can cause people to harm others in our own history witches where killed through fear and ignorance nearly all where adults who could fight back.

We as a people said we would never let the burning times return we fought for rights slowly returning to the world head held high broomsticks in hand. It now time to shine a light on the darkness and expose the evil of Helen Ukpabio and Liberty Foundation Gospel Ministries and all those that harm children.

We need to question what is going on and force people to act against harming children everywhere

 Christian exploits local superstitious beliefs

Originally posted 2011-04-12 11:28:36. Republished by Blog Post Promoter